This look rocks the chick, fresh look. It dares you to be a little bold all the while staying in your comfort zone. So many people each day get bullied for what they wear, how they act, how they dress, and some things they cant control. I always dremt about being that strong, loyal person who stands up for the weaker ones. I pictured myself going up to one of my best friends who was being mean to another person, and just tellling her off. I would look deep into her eyes and make sure she woudnt do it again. i woul be the hero.
Now, entering High School I notice that its alot harder than i ever imagined to go up and stand up for the weaker man. People can be cruel, very cruel. As much as i HATE watching this bullying going on I find myself constantly being afraid of standing up to the bullly. I once vowed never to tolerate the rcuelness of bullying, and now i am struggling living up to that expctation. I am afraid, what willl happen if I go against my best friend and do whats right? Will they like me? Will they still be my friend? I know this is selfish but- Will i be their nexty targget for bullying? Everything races through my head at once
I got to a certain point where i didnt even like myself for nbot standing up for this lonely, bullied boy. Although it was hard to admit i decidded i would rather have everyone laughing at me and have that good feeling inside of you, that you just sacrificed yourself for the potential happiness of another person. Besides, in the end it woulnt matter about those "best friends" who trotted around in a little possy and brought others down. It woulnt b e about what jeans you wore, how your hair llooked, what your reputation was or any of that crap. In the end mnore people will lie you for being you, rather than a mean follower. The world needs more leaders, and less followers who just go with the flow. We need friends., We need you!
Bullying is terrible, put yourself in the victims shoes. How would you feel. crushed? destroyed useless? THATS WHY THIS NEEDS TO STOP NOW! Everyone was put on this earth for a purpose, and although we are sometimes unaware of what that is i can gurantee you that you will find out, and that it is not to bring others down, or to be brought down by others.
In the end cool is just another word along with fat, ugly, stupid, gay, retarded, etc. You are beauitiful, you are you, and you are meant to be loved. You are meant to be a true genuine person, who cares about others and loves ebverytone. If you are one of those bullies, which is har to admit. I know, but if you are, its never to llate to change your reputation. You can go from being a jerk, to being a kind hearted helpful person very quickly. I mean, what do you get from making people cry themselves to sleep, starve the,mselves, and feel like they dont belong? what is satisfying aboput being a jerk? Are you taking out the anger you recieve at home?? Does it make you feel powerfuL? I seriously cant even begin to explain how wrong it is, and i ant even start to tell you why people do it. If you are one of those people who dpo it-STOP! How would you like if that was you? if you are being bullied- MORE POWER TO YA! Seriously, stay strong there are many people out there who love you exactly the way you are. Bystanders- TOUGHEN UP! Dont make the samne mistake i did for toooo long. Make adifference, be a friend to someone who doesnt have one. Break off from following that group that goes around a brings people down! dont let that be you! dont go with the flow! Please, i beg you! Remember With one little action that chain reaction will never stop, be strong, shine a light and send it on. With one act of love meant for one will become two. If we take the chances and change circumstances imagine all we can do. If we make a light and shine itr on!!! SHINE A LIGHT AND SENT IT ON!!!! please channge th worl, by first chnaging yourself